“You must do the thing you think you cannot do.”
Eleanor Roosevelt
Some of my favourite quotes come from the former First Lady. In addition to the one above, the other one I often seem to live my life by is “Do one thing every day that scares you.”
This year has been no different.
Earlier in the year I was asked if I would be willing to run a music program one day a week for some of our higher needs senior students. Of course I said yes but not without trepidation. Anyone reading this blog will know (even from the title) that I am in the habit of doing things for which I possess no formal qualifications. Teaching music is no different.
So why me? Because from my first days as a casual relief teacher, I have tried to incorporate music into my lessons. I became rather well known for walking in and out of school with firstly a ukulele, then a small guitar, followed by a small suitcase of other instruments and finally a very large suitcase (big enough to incur regular comments of “Moving out of home, are we?”).
What I lack in a piece of paper, I make up for with love and passion – for special needs education and for enabling these unique students to experience live music.
It used to be that qualifying as a teacher required you to learn some sort of instrument but in these days of the internet, Spotify and YouTube, music in classrooms has become something professionally recorded. Experiencing someone singing and playing live and having the opportunity to make music too is an unusual occurrence for those outside the expensive private school system.
So, once a week, I would take over a therapy room and spend the day singing and making music. Like most things I do, I made it up as a went along, admittedly stressed every week that it wouldn’t be good enough. But when one term turned into two which turned into three when the second term was disrupted by lockdowns, it was clear that my program was working. I wish I could share the joyous photos of my students. It made my day, my week, my year.



Last week I was asked if I would be willing to run my program again next year. Of course, I had to think about it first. For about a nanosecond…
But, dear Eleanor, things didn’t end there. It got a lot scarier.
Through a random conversation with one of the teachers, I found myself writing a graduation song. The thought of performing it at the ceremony was terrifying but I needn’t have worried as surging COVID-19 cases and increased pandemic restrictions meant I wasn’t able to attend after all.
Hahahaha…. No worries….
Instead of performing it live, I was asked if I could record it so it could be used by the speech therapists to create the graduation video that would not only be shown at the ceremony but also shared on the school Facebook page.
Oh sure.
How do I do that, exactly??
Thus I embarked on the “do the thing you think you cannot do” journey of the year, buying a microphone and googling “how do I…?” questions every day.
I did it. I did the thing. It wasn’t perfect but I did it.
You can watch it here: https://fb.watch/a2gyEj9kE2/
(It took about seven takes to get that first shot. Seven times, climbing up the frame with a guitar on my back. We laughed a lot.)
PS I’ve been commissioned to write a song for next year’s graduation class too. I think I’ve started something. Scary things every day.
How about you? When have you done the thing you think you cannot do?
Why am I not surprised about any of this ?!!
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I dunno. Why?
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good
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Fantastic effort, Heather! It must have taken many hours to put this video together. Best start now for next year 🤣💕 Wishing you a wonderful festive season and another fabulous year ahead 🎅🎄☃️⭐💗
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I must assign the credit for the video work to the two speech therapists who did all the recording and the one who put it all together. For their sakes, I hope to have the song for the class of 2022 ready by March. 😄
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Well, I haven’t done anything worthwhile with my year so I’m not well placed to comment 🤣💕
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I’m absolutely sure you’ve spread some joy, Jo! 😁💕
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🤗💕
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That’s beautiful, Heather! You were so kind to accept these challenges. Of course, I’m not surprised that you did and that you met them so well. The world needs more people like you. Merry Christmas!
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In the end, I got so much more out of the challenges than it took to face them so definitely no regrets. And no hesitation to push on with more.
Thanks, Dan. Merry Christmas to you too!
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Beautiful song, Heather, well done! Have a great Christmas, stay well, stay happy xx much love
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Thanks, Elly. Happy Christmas to you! Looking forward to catching up soon. (Omicron cases dependent. 😏)
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A great effort, Heather. I think as we get older, we get a bit braver at facing these challenges that require us to step out of our comfort zone. I like the soft melody you have created. The students should love it too. Bravo!
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Do you think we start to care less what others will think? Or do we just get bored? 😄
Thanks, Amanda. Everyone seemed very happy with the song. It was lovely to be able to offer that. I do love my job!
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Employees who love their job should be highly valued and appreciated! I hope you are!
I do think we reach a stage where we find our own sweet spot – be that a comfortable tribe, a caring companion, or a invigorating lifestyle whereby we are more comfortable with ourselves and therefore more confident with others. If we are lucky enough to reach that point, we are ready for more challenges!
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How lucky are these students to have such caring and committed staff looking after them. Your song is lovely and it was great to see all the students being involved. Well done!
Happy Christmas to you and your family.
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And we are so very lucky to get to teach them. Happy Christmas to you and yours too!
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‘What I lack in a piece of paper, I make up for with love and passion’ I absolutely love this, Heather. You don’t need a piece of paper to tell you what you can and can’t do. That is incredible you’ve taught music to a class for the last year, and learnt and performed their graduation song. That video is so heart-warming and optimistic, and you made a difference. For me, the thing I am doing and thought I couldn’t do is writing a book. I finished the first draft the other day, so it’s a start.
Wishing you well this holiday season, stay safe and take care.
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I still feel a bit overwhelmed by my luck to get to do something so rewarding and I’m so excited for next year.
A book! That’s wonderful! What a massive challenge. Well done you for taking it on. I have no doubt it will be amazing.
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This is absolutely beautiful Heather. What a wonderful testament to the students & staff to create such a last memory. Well done !
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It made me teary. It’s always sad to see them go but this obviously had added poignancy.
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I could watch that video a hundred times. I seem to have a big throat lump. What a difference you are making in these young lives .Well done you!
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Thanks, Sue. The joy i see every week in my program fills me up. Best day of my week.
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